I can rely on my partner to react in a positive way when I expose my weaknesses to him/her.

A. Never
B. Sometimes
C. Often
D. All the times

The person I am with is very supportive of things that I do?

A. Never
B. Sometimes
C. Often
D. All the times

We were compatible physically at the beginning of our relationship.

A. No
B. Yes

The person I am with understands that I have my own life too?

A. Never
B. Sometimes
C. Often
D. All the times

If I had to explain to my children years from now why staying with their dad/mom was good for them and for me, I think I could make a pretty good case.

A. Yes
B. No

Have you ever kept a secret from your partner?

A. All the times
B. Sometimes
C. Only once
D. Nope

Do you always say all the critical things you have for your partner?

A. I do not say every critical thought I have
B. Sometimes I am too critical
C. I am habitually critical

Even when I don't know how my partner will react, I feel comfortable telling him/her anything about myself, even those things of which I am ashamed.

A. Never
B. Sometimes
C. Often
D. All the times

Though we've gone through some difficult times, I can at least tell my children they have a dad/mom worthy of their respect.

A. Never
B. Sometimes
C. Often
D. All the times

Though times may change and the future is uncertain, I know my partner will always be ready and willing to offer me strength and support.

A. Never
B. Sometimes
C. Often
D. All the times

What sort of arrangement do the two of you have regarding your finances?

A. Never talked about money in Relationship
B. Our finances are completely separate
C. We have discussed finances and a plan is in place
D. We have joint accounts

How often do the two of you get away together, either on a small outing or a holiday?

A. We don't at all
B. Just once so far
C. Here and there
D. Regularly

My partner is one of my best friends.

A. No
B. Yes

I feel appreciated for what I contribute to this relationship.

A. No
B. No

What happens when one or both of you feel stressed or upset?

A. Most often we just seem to say or do the wrong thing
B. We turn to each other for support, but don't always know how best to respond
C. Always manage to help each other feel better