Relationship advice: tips for meeting a boyfriends motherTweet
May you are very nervous before to meet your boyfriend's mother but don't get nervous there are so many ways to win her affection. Brings some small gift ( like flowers, ear rings, perfume if she like) for her because in first meet she feel soft corner for you. Look in the her eyes when you are talking.
You never find all good qualities are involve in one single person. Nature is varies from person to person. So may be some points (any point) is not get match with particular frame. It's anything you cant like dressing, culture, opinion, manners anything you cant say particularly this thing. If you want to become good future daughter in law then please meet your mother in law. Try to understand what she is expecting from you. Because she is the only person which will give you all your future responsibilities
Select appropriate timing just as evening. Select special day & venue for meeting. Don' make a plan to meet in between her office time or on weekdays. Before meeting fix a time as per your mother in laws convenience. Don't choose place like hotel is full with rush. Select a venue like pleasant & calm place where you can speak easily.
If you are inviting for dinner on to your house then please inform to your parents. Don't invite other relatives or friends groups on particular that occasion because may be it will become obstacle into your discussion. Try to find what type of food she likes. If you don't' like the same food then please don't make comment on it. Just say 'No, thanks'' .When the your meeting session is over tell her it was a pleasure meeting her and that you look forward to getting to know her better.
Please wear simple dress cloths. Don't wear miniskirts & slutty dress.. Wear pleasant color like in pastel shades, pink, light yellow etc. Don't makeup too much gaudy. Please also give compliment her on her clothes , look etc .
After your introduction part is finish try to take situation into your hand means ask your doubt. for example, ask about her expectation. & talk about family members nature etc. In this way she feel that you are really equally interested in her family.
Don't make any comment on their family matters. Remember one thing now you are only simple girl according to her & may be become future daughter in law after your marriage only. After your meeting it's very necessary for you to talk to your boyfriend about his mother.